Thanksgiving Dinner in a Small Space

Some tricks to fit in all of your guests for a cozy holiday gathering

This narrow table tucks into a space near the window. It’s dressed a la française with a linen tablecloth, tarnished silver, and large candles with dried flower arrangements. (Photo: Cassandra Lavalle)

The good news about hosting Thanksgiving is that it’s supposed to feel cozy. (The word “cozy” being a euphemism for “squished.”) Squished in a good way—elbows knocking, dishware clinking, warmth and goodwill in abundance.

To host Thanksgiving is the ultimate in American hospitality. It’s not easy for even the most seasoned hosts with generous dining rooms and well-stocked kitchens. But it might feel near impossible in an apartment, condo or cottage. This year, is it your turn to invite friends and family over? Just remember, like any kind of dinner party they will be thrilled to be asked. Don’t be surprised (or dismayed) when every single person RSVPs yes.

Instead, start thinking strategically about your dinner setup.

Room for everyone

It is highly unlikely that your dinner guests will sit down and converse in their chairs at the dining table the minute they walk through the door. It’s natural. The best part about a gathering like this are the little clusters of conversation and laughter that take place in various corners.

The absolute best strategy for serving Thanksgiving dinner is using a sideboard. That’s what they are made for. You can have it up close to your dining tables so the kitchen remains free of crowds. (Photo: Shabby Fufu)

Just remember one immutable point: They’re going to gravitate to the kitchen. You either need to accept that and work around them, or plant a “proxy” host in the place you prefer them to be. This could be you (while your partner manages the food), your roommate, responsible child, or other family member.

Place your bar and snacks on a table in your chosen gathering spot as a binding agent.

Any kind of table or credenza will work for a bar to serve drinks, snacks, desserts, or even a dinner buffet. (Photo: 1111 Light Lane)

Optical tricks to open up space

Small restaurant owners have to be really creative to fit all the tables they need. They utilize corners, alcoves, and built-ins in order to squeeze in just a few more place settings. You can learn from that.

These tables fit snugly into corners, with rather narrow tables and small yet comfortable chairs. Benches are also great space savers.

I think organic-looking linen is my thing this year, because this table sings to me. Featuring undyed linen that isn’t even ironed—perfect for a day you are too busy cooking. (Photo: The Nord Room)

This setup is in a tight corner but its gorgeous organic aesthetic and scaled-down table keep it from being claustrophobic.

Here is another idea I thought was perfect for the tiny Thanksgiving: bring the action down to earth (or close to it). Set up your table Eastern style with low comfortable seating cushions. It’s casual but special and somehow the low profile makes the room feel less busy.

If your guests still have limber knee movement, this Eastern-style table setup is perfect for larger Thanksgiving parties. (Photo: Black and Blooms)

A low-seating arrangement might be hard for older guests, so maybe offer a second table nearby with traditional chairs.

And finally …

You still have a few weeks to prepare and I think you should spend some of that time on a memorable place favor. My friend Mary’s DIY Cornucopias are easy and splendid all at the same time.

This little cornucopia adds a warm homemade feeling to each place setting. Try to add at least one personalized piece to your tables, whether it’s a name card, a favor, or a group game. (Photo: Home Is Where the Boat Is)

It’s made with scrap paper sheets you find easily in craft stores or online. Fill it with candy or a note of gratitude, whatever strikes your fancy. Your guests will love it and will remember your tiny Thanksgiving feast for many years to come.